The Best and Most Healing Response From Your White Brothers and Sisters

"I can't tell you how healing it's been to be able to call a white friend, cause i don't want to burden my black friends yet again," she says. "You're better off checking on them, saying like, hay, like, i'm hurt that this has happened...you're better off leaning in then not." She adds: "One one moment of lament um will be really generous and it's necessary for kingdom living"