Do I Care About This Person or Do I Just Want to Win an Argument?

When we think about doing amr to something good, who am I doing it to? Do I care about this person, or do I just want to win an argument? And what is my motivation for correcting them? What is my emlume and saving? Right? This becomes a really important question to ask myself when I'm embarking on a journey to correct somebody else. You have to treat someone like a dignified human being - you're not in the back of your head. That's not how human relationships work.