You Shouldn't Kill Yourself

"I actually really did pull myself over at the Alkeny ledge. So it was very close and I'm very lucky that I had a friend, Thared Al with me," she says. "The reaction to my not ladylike tweets was outsized in proportion to my mistake." She talks about how many said to you: 'It doesn't matter what happened to you, what's more important is how the Asian community is perceived' In her new book Constance there are complexities around carrying the burden of carrying for an entire group.