The Healing Power of Checking In

I think that part of what made it a super healing scene for me was that I got to go so deep into the worry of it being true, that I needed for myself to face that. A lot of kink play, there is a general misperception that like tops don't need aftercare or like the tops are always fine and kink is about the bottom. And again, like you don't have to go hard, but if you do, that reassurance is so important. The harder that you play and the edgier that you play, the more that everyone involved needs a lot of like reassurance and aftercare That they aren't a terrible monster for the things