How to Speak to Adults in the Schoolyard, When You're in Your Twenties

i was seen as cheeky because i had the audacity to refer to the adult by their first name, or ask the adult a question. And this became a big issue then when i would get to school. So i very quickly found myself getting chastised excessively for behaviors that i considered to be normal. But you know what? They're just words. And e non, is he using these words to bully other children, to hurt other children, or is he simple simply flippantly using words that we label as bad? That should have been asked. It got me a bad reputation in school,. unfortunately, in in baby school and then all the way up to primary school. I