The Importance of Accepting and Owning Your Needs

"I've actually been wounded here. I'll give you another example," she says. "My brother Wayne made a statement that really triggered me and all of a sudden this awareness went on of how much I hate neediness." The vow was something that limited my heart, affected my marriage, affected my happiness,. You know, I didn't have that attitude. It's not a, I don't need to make a judgment about needs. I need to accept and own and understand my needs and then surrender those to God because the vow was an unholy vow".