When we think about the classic person who has no self respect and comes crawling back right cauld, she really hurt you. What is self respect? How do you get it? So right now, you're willing to sacrifice yourself to get happiness from outside of you. And without that happiness fromoutside of you, you're going to feel alone,. You're going to feeling hungry, right? Ecause you don't have all those things. Self respect is actually choosing pain. It's not an acceptable way to behave as a human being.