I don't think this stand up comedy thing is going to work out for youoyou ow. I've seen situations where all f the friends of this person are hav aconversation behind their back, and no one is telling the purso,. And we're talkin bout their closest friends. It's cruso. That's really unfortunate. But if you really, if you know, you would want to know. i do think the golden rule is the right huristic here. You just, it might be the case that you wouldn't want to know if you were in their shoes. Then then it becomes more interesting to consider whether you should tell them anything.