i do think it seems like you evoke complicated feelings in people. So what i'd be really curious about is, for bob, how did yall's relationships start? Ah, and kind of exploring that, cause i think you'll find a lot of answers there. And this goes back to thatthat patient that i was working with who sort of, like, like, a woman treats him with like, respect early on,. But when he meets a woman who sort of like d values him, and then he in turn d values her, he's a intoxicant, abuse of due.And so they kind of fall into this pattern. And i think in his case, it's