A Woman's Greatest Role in the Church Is to Disappear

i was raised as a woman in the church, and that my greatest role was to disappear. And i'm wondering if that ever played into any of your problems that i still have to deconstruct. I just remember thinking like, no matter what happens, there's no winning for me because you have, because i'm fish, you know? Or if i did, i could have kids, but i would either have to do it like the old fashioned way, which would be breaking the law of chastity. You're not effeminacy, you don't need a man without children; they lose their love when they are alone. So  if you get everyone's opinion about you