Romantic Partner - What's Missing?

The reason a break up can feel so painful and why it's so instinctual to reach out for someone or something else, its because of that hole that's left by your ex. So we do want to fill this void in a healthy and productive way, because it's very painful to live without filling that. We have family and friends who love us and want to be there for us. And this is the time to start cultivating those relationships so they can help you fill this void. It may take some asking for help, which is never super comfortable but let's say you had a really hard day. You always used to call your x to feel safe and secure. Now, after having