A lot of people who struggle to find relationships grow up in situations where they don't have proper roll models. Just because your dad is a certain way, doesn't mean you're going to be that way. So basically, if you think about your roll models, thats whats you were born with. That's your karma. You are not doomed by your parents. If you were dealt a hand in life that gives you poor opportunities going forward, that just means that you need to be patient with yourself.