Are You Bringing Stress or Drama Into Your Girlfriend's Life?

"I don't want you bringing any stress or drama into her life," the person wrote. "Drama is very likely a trigger word for this relative of yours," he says, and she may have taken it that way. Paul: She probably thought that you couldn't trust her not to bring it. Maybe you know it will happen. But what ends happening is that when people don't feel trusted, they get offended.