If he feels on love, that's where you can say, no, i love you. It's just, there's a difference between love and accountability. You'll need to have conversations about this kind of stuff. The problem is people don't teach us to talk like this when it comes to people who struggle with depression. And then at the end of the day, like what he may even try to do? I s just to walk yell through a couple of things, techniques at ease, he may peremptorily break up with you.