There's only two relationships that resemble each other. The one you have with your parents or the people who raise you and the one you had with the people you fall in love with. People can sit in my office all the time and say I have this with no one else. And we find ourselves often much closer to the apple. We resent ourselves like how did we do them or why did we fix this place? Yes and then we feel a shame about it, since we don't like to feel ashamed about it we hide it by blaming the partner. That's just one of the ways that's a load. We are very resourcefully not owning our sh...