How to Balance Being Welcome and Inviting With Establishing Boundaries

Lisa Terkers: Ask yourself is this a repeated pattern where I am unsafe, unstable or I feel like I'm losing my sanity. Don't go out of the loan get otherwise people to help you and don't hide information from them. Remember boundaries are not meant to shove other people away they're meant to hold me together so that I can love others well without losing the best of who I am now. She says as a southern girl myself there are certain expectations that can get very confusing but she adds Jesus didn't call us to lay down our life for our friends.