The Importance of Balance in Relationships

I feel like it's It's one of those ones where I feel like he started off He started off on like her on the wrong foot. You already know there's gonna be some form of imbalance with just that one child in the first place So if you choose to let's say me for example, I've chosen to take on Any potential headache that comes my way with this with this one kid. Yeah, yeah, I then Want to procreate with my missus and have a kid with her. Okay, we're a family. There's four of us now I can't I can't be so shocked that That Whether we if if and when we break up that she's not