Stephanie Coontz: I really think that there is a problem where people would rather be right than effective n. When recording this, and igt and i tweeed about it, and i got some anti semitic messages. And one guy just wrote, am you know, a, this's a hot opening and pard on the language. But he just went, a kike. That's how that went. Vanishingly rare. We've lost all subtlety. It's like circling up and coming back up my own buthole and own my ikeboros. Everything with technology is your life.