We're actually reinforcing the behavior of inadequacy. Be careful about using achievement as a short cut to confidence. The more you achieve, your mind can always find someone who's better than you. If i start being content with my winds, does that mean that i'm apathetic and i'm not going to achieve any more? We'll get a caller on that eventually. But just focus on that, and be careful about trying to live a life where you live up to expectations instead of listening to what's in here.