The Negative Effects of Systemic Occupation on Relationships

I think that brings up an important point in terms of like if you just look at it, the lens of like systemic oppression and trauma. There's a lot of work that needs to be done there, right? And abuse is in fact abuse. I don't give shit about what you're feeling because that's how my brain works. You know, and it's just like, all of this stuff doesn't help if you're not actually evaluating through the lens of 'is this an equitable dynamic?' Are two people able to show up and be authentically themselves?"