The Difference Between Being Nice and Being Kind

O'Connie BLDR: What is the difference between being nice and being kind? John Sutter: Niceness doesn't come from an internal place, it comes from a place of like trying to wear the clothing of being nice. And in some ways, you are really doing yourself a disservice because you're really just getting out of touch with who you are," he says. "I hope that everyone has that sort of insight at some point"