How to Love a Child Without Encouraging Them to Get Lost in Emotion

"It's a kind of a tricky thing to learn to love a child without encouraging them to get lost in emotion like that yes God I do that," he says. "You're projecting yourself as a child under your kid and you're it which is again more selfishness because you're not even trying to help your kid." He adds, "I realized that yeah that we get conditioned into making our pain physical or emotional into catastrophe so we get more love we get more comfort"