I Haven't Heard From You Forever, I'll Just Send Her a Text and Say, He I H Whata?

i think, like most people, this friend of yours feels maybe a little hunted. She knows that she's let you down. Maybe your piece of this problem is that you're expecting more from her than she's willing and able to give. I actually have had a couple of occasions when i've explicitly re negotiated the terms of a friendship. That's usually initiated by females who are more experienced at directly addressing relationships. It can be done. It's just hard to force yourself to have the explicit conversation well.