Welcome to today’s episode of The Mindset Mentor Podcast where today we are going to dive deep into how you can help yourself grow, and simultaneously empower others around you to grow as well.
Here’s what I’ve gotta preface this episode with, because I get a lot of people approaching me and asking the same question around this… I find a lot of people when they first get into personal development and start working on themselves and experiencing transformation… a lot of people end up stressed out because they are trying to get others around them to want the same growth but more often than not it only ends up creating conflict in their relationships.
If you have experienced this in your own life, I need you to first ask yourself this question, “Are you trying to get someone to change who they are, or are you allowing them the space to grow into who they are meant to be?”
The first 4 years of my wife and I dating, she wasn’t into personal development at all. I bought her books, I tried getting her to go to conferences, but it just wasn’t her thing. And then one day she just caught on and decided to taste what the pursuit of personal development was like.
What happened is when I stopped trying to force her to change into the person I wanted her to be, I focused on being the lighthouse instead.
Your job for those around you is to nurture others and allow them to become who they want to become.
Now turn the tables… ask yourself this: “How are the people around you nurturing an environment for you to grow in?”
If a flower doesn’t grow, you don’t change the flower. You change the environment. If you’ve been stuck for a while, maybe you should reassess your environment and determine if it’s actually conducive for you to grow in.
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