Hannah Whitten is the host of Doing It, a podcast about sexuality and relationships. This week's question comes from an anonymous person in Illinois who was 29 using she-her pronouns. She has crones and an iliostomy due to a persistent anal fistula which means my partner and I haven't been able to have penetrative sex in over a year because it causes a lot of pain for me. We are not doctors or therapists, the advice we give is purely what we imagine we would say to a friend if they came to us with these questions.
Welcome back to the Doing It agony aunts miniseries, where Hannah and her assistant Megan answer your questions with friendly advice! This week is all about feelings about porn - about your partner watching porn, examining discomfort about porn, and finding positive stories about porn. All the general narratives are either about conflict, secrecy, shame and, if you're lucky, maybe it's played for lols. But having examples of positive stories and interactions with porn can help us all build new frameworks in how we feel about it and hopefully have a positive impact on our relationships too.
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