Hannah Whitten is the host of Doing It, a podcast about sexuality and relationships. This week's question comes from an anonymous person in Illinois who was 29 using she-her pronouns. She has crones and an iliostomy due to a persistent anal fistula which means my partner and I haven't been able to have penetrative sex in over a year because it causes a lot of pain for me. We are not doctors or therapists, the advice we give is purely what we imagine we would say to a friend if they came to us with these questions.

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