I was a very difficult child to have. And the, you know, i saw things growing up where, ah, my parents were very desperate to see how they could fix me. I think it's because i liked the whole catholic guilt thing. You know, ders all, there's a lot of like, catholic guilt going on. So, ia, i'm almost, i can imagine that you may be felt responsible for their stress. Ye, like maybe if you were thier, they could all relax and chill out and wouldn't have to cry or other things. Yes, that's part of the reason why nowi i take care of my parents a so