How to Deal With Financial Guilt and Obligation

Dear life kid: I'm starting to feel financially guilt tripped at sort of in connection, financial and like life stage. When a parent's asked for my grades at the end of the first semester, I told them that I'd prefer not to give them my exact grades. Of course they do, there's nothing wrong with that general premise of tuition money for grades. But maybe there's some version of that massaging fee conversation where we can actually define expectations.