How Much Time Do You Spend Thinking About Your Relationship?

I think for me at least and my relationship with James. It's stabilized a ton So definitely in the beginning stages where maybe there were more ups and downs and more things to kind of Work to align on I feel like I was always thinking about our relationship And then as we started living together as You know, we kind of fit into each other's lives in a way that made sense to usand it felt like he and I were living like one life together That's so pretty But I think it does free up more time, right?It's like once my relationship with my partner was really really Calm and didn't have much friction That's when I started kind of channeling more like time