Self-consciousness really does get at this what I'm calling the self the the illusory self as a kind of contraction. When you recognize no center then even when your gaze is aimed at another person's gaze there is no implication going back to the center because there is no center right and rather than that being an experience of weird detachment or confusion, it's actually an experience of greater relationship.

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