She Was Tried, but She Couldn't Change Herself, Right?

raven admits that she wanted to use soul magic to reduce or eliminate her attraction to uther because it was painful and she knew it was never going to happen, et cetera. But she couldn't. Her soul was fucked up. And at that point i'm like, o ok, now all this makes sense. This is basic resentment. She couldn't change herself, so why should anybody else get to? I guess she need some theropy too. Yes, that has't much easier recovery option than failing the other way. Right? On.