How Do You Differ Between Romantic Love and Best Friendship?

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I think the distinction for me honestly is that romantic love comes with such intense hormones that are like coursing the remains. Exactly because best friends didn't feel enough. Yeah so we kept going soulmates we kept going like twin flames and people with jokes that we were like lovers and like together in that way but we weren't. We were just trying to find something that felt genuine and true and authentic to who we were. And so it wasn't easy to get over the moment we saw it but it took a while for us to see it. I'm constantly questioning like did I choose this? Did I want this or have I just been taught to? That's a great question.

In this episode, Hannah is joined by April Lee and Renee Wong, platonic life partners originally from Singapore and now based in LA. April and Renee tell Hannah all about their personal story and what led to them becoming platonic life partners, what a PLP actually is, and how to tell the difference between a best friend, a potential PLP, and a romantic love connection. They talk about getting to handpick things that create security and commitment in their partnership without having to deal with the complex legalities of marriage, why it’s more common for women and queer people to have PLPS, and also their experiences of dating other people while in their PLP. Finally, April and Renee talk about what it’s like navigating such a sexualised world when demisexual, what would happen if one of them were to meet a romantic partner, and why, if they were to have children, they would want to do it with each other.

✨MORE ABOUT APRIL LEE✨

A Singaporean writer and creative producer based in Los Angeles. As a storyteller, I take special interest in exploring the unconventional and taboo, and breaking down stigmas. Cat-whisperer and Game of Thrones enthusiast.
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✨MORE ABOUT RENEE WONG✨
An explorer of self and spirituality, and knitter of (only) scarves. April's counterpart who moved across the world to be with her in LA a year ago.

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