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Polyamory and Race with @monogamishpod

Happy Polydays

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The Inner Life Racism of a White Boyfriend

"I can confidently say he was more racist to me than all of my white boyfriends combined because of like this internalized hatred," she says. "He said things to me like, you know, I, you're so civilized for a Chinese girl being Chinese himself." She moved to the UK and started dating again with her second boyfriend who grew up in North London where his parents had a fish and chip shop. 'We speak in Chinese to each other at school to like piss off the white kids'

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