Destination Wedding Gifts - I Don't Want to Give You a Present?

I think it's absolutely ridiculous that anyone would expect someone to bring a gift to a destination wedding. I'm just going to tell everyone, if you invite me to your destination wedding, I will be empty handed. And the other two, if you're going to go, just blend in and mooch on someone else's gift,. There's a... That's not a bad idea. Now we're getting into something. You write a card with a very generic vague message, love Shane, and then swap it with somebody else's card. Oh, yeah. That must have been done before. For sure. Or just like stick it by a present that you see if there's physical