Are You Going to Be Hard and Mean and Kind and Gentle?

Some situations you need to be tough and I mean really hard and tough. In other situations, such as with a baby, you need toBe soft and gentle and kind and sweet. You're direct and strong but also kind at the same time. Neither one is right or wrong. They're both good and they're both bad. This is this idea of yin and yang. It's the opposite of what you learn in school. One right answer. If you are frustrated in some area of your life, it might be because you have a false choice in your head. Get rid of either or thinking.