The Four Magic Words of Consent

We need to get educated ourselves about what the mechanics look like, what consent looks like. And Dan Savage talks about the four magic words which he mentioned, what are you into? It's an open-ended question as opposed to how we talk about consent in a heterosexual context. The girl might very well say, I have no earthly idea because of the way we socialize girls around sex. That's one of the ways that girls and sex and boys and sex are in conversation with each other.