How to Have Difficult Conversations With Your Significant Other

Every relationship will have a certain set of patterns. And so once you begin to be able to anticipate that behavior in your significant other, then you can keep the conversation in a productive way. It's just hard to come to terms with what it is that are manifesting and why you have them - but we'll get there one day. Maria: I'm still growing after 11 years of marriage,. But yet, this is really, really helpful. One of the things that you've been talking about, though, is preparation. We talked about this before, and again, we talk about it on the show all the time where we have the free guides.