Building Chemistry Through Slowing Down and Speeding Up

When you're designing sex mindfully not every interaction has to end in sex as we know like intercourse and orgasm both people have to finish but there's a lot of variations that it can take shape. The whole process of getting there by talking about each other's needs starts to make up for the lack of mismatched libidos. Having your needs verbalized on how to get them met is so much more powerful than having any clue what they want or need. You don't even have to say these things, just allow the sexual connection to build up then release with an orgasmodic climax. That last stage will probably be above and beyond what you could ever experience in the first two