I'm Curious Why You Never Seem to Be in the Mood Anymore?

Don't talk to her, ignore her, give the silent treatment. If you're doing all those things now and those are not leading you to your goal, I want you to start communicating the curiosity that you came up with when you brainstormed. This can this can literally be you saying to her, hey, I'm curious why you never seem to be in the mood anymore. Do you know exactly why that is? And see what she says.