I think some dreams are just like, they don't have that divviness where you don't have the full resonance as though like you're really experiencing it. So yeah, certainly when bad things happen to me in my dreams, it is upsetting. But I do think that their experiences can have different levels of vividness, even in waking life,. Like if someone's on a lot of alcohol, or really tired, like life can have seems to have less vividness than normal. It might even make it more stressful because you're kind of less mentally prepared for it.