I Have Fangs, but She Doesn't Own You, Right?

You need a space for the fantasies that you don't share with her where you don't feel like, oh my God, I'm totally accountable for telling the wife every woman I find attractive. She doesn't own you. Right. If she can join into some of those fantasies, it alleviates your own shame and guilt and it makes the fantasies more enjoyable. So, a big, big part of being able to be faithful is knowing what the grass tastes like on both sides of the fence. It depends how old they are. If they're in their 30s, they would totally get it,. If they're 22, they won't. Probably won't.