How Much Quality Time Do You Spend Doing Something Fun?

This question encourages couples to take out a calendar, look at the past week or month and ask how many minutes did we spend actually doing something fun or pleasurable together? I really like this question because we spend our lives on autopilot going from business meetings to obligations to chores. We're like, what's coming up that we're looking forward to? Like, what have we got planned that we're excited about or lookingforward to? It doesn't have to be  a week-long vacation somewhere,. Even if it's just an evening or something, it can be something small. And so I really believe in this question, how much quality time are you actually getting doing something fun