How to Get Your Kids to a Place Where They're Open and Available

We're constantly moving between the phases of how we parent and the same is true for our kids. What life skills do they need to start with on the surface? We use a iceberg here because there are a million gazillion life skills you want your kids to have. This is just set up to kind of have you focus on a few things that they're going to be developing over time, maybe give you a little bit of a prioritization.