I was goint also igoingto ask about joseph hendrick's book about the weird people in the world. His thesis is that this is what kind of made the western world. And so i always wonder to what extent we're limiting our thinking about these issues to just weird people, that is, western people. Yes, yes. I agree with that. In all my books, actually, i bring in cross cultural data. We're, we're relevant. There's very good evidence in this talk about the replicability crisis. One of the things that i am very proud of is that my work on sex differences in our mating psychology, including jealousy, has
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