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Friends with Benefits

Gay Men Going Deeper

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How to Define a Fuck Buddy in Friends With Benefits

"I think one of the ways that I've gone wrong previously in Friends with Benefits is mixing it up with what I call fuck buddies," he says. "That's the person I would message at two o'clock in the morning being like, hey, you're on, let's do this." In a forensic benefits relationship and one thinks of it more as a 'f**k buddy,' another way to define it is transactional. Both exist for their reasons. They're both valid. But as you mentioned, you may take a misstep without truly thinking ... how do I want to live within it?"

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