The Relationship Toolkit - I'm Not So Concerned About That

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I owe my ex partner a lot of credit for encouraging me to do this work. The foundation upon which the love and vulnerability was based with my ex was extreme trust. She does not have a malicious bone in her body. And that made me feel safe enough to do all of the things that I described. Finding a successful woman or someone who has established her own identity is important, too.

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Matt Mochary (@mattmochary) coaches the heads of top Silicon Valley tech investment firms and companies on how to be the best leaders and build the best organizations possible. His philosophy and method are captured in both the Mochary Coaching Methodology (which is available as a free Google Doc) and in his book The Great CEO Within, which is available on Amazon and online (also as a free Google Doc).

As a former founder, CEO, and investor, Matt knows firsthand the challenges of those roles as well as solutions to the most commonly encountered problems. His coaching is not questions-only; there is real guidance. Matt specializes in helping CEOs and their companies (or investment firms) transition from freewheeling startups to dominant enterprises.

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[05:36] Fear and anger give bad advice.

[10:23] Dispelling dating dread.

[17:19] The power of prediction.

[27:07] Next actions.

[30:56] Turning conversations into action items.

[33:36] Accountability for introverts and extroverts.

[38:20] What is Focusmate?

[40:23] Separating decision from implementation.

[44:43] Firing well.

[51:33] Effective and efficient recruiting.

[1:01:41] Getting honest feedback from past managers.

[1:04:10] The energy audit.