Amber says she doesn't want to touch the seat, which is a reasonable thing. But we don't have to deal with Points 1 and 3, so you win the argument. We pull the seat down to leave it for the ladies - then lift it up when they're done. Paul: "There is a neutral position for the toilet, and that is seat down lid on" 'It's one of those things that is... It changes nationality depending on where you are,' he adds.