How to Say No to Take Care of Others

Sylvia 1113: I'm the mother of two daughters, Sylvia 1113. Do you have any advice on how to cook this down to some fruitful parenting tips? The pleaser is one that can't say no to taking care of other people even when the right thing is to do that. You've got to sometimes put the oxygen mask on yourself in the plane and the pleaser puts it on somebody else because they can’t say no. So if you are a giving caring person, learn how to say no when you want to say no instead of being forced by a savioteur about always giving.