There's got to be some san you're with him, and you can just dwell or talk about that. The second thing that you can do is encourage certain kinds of positive behavior. Ask for his help if you need his help with something, ok? You can say, hey, like, i really need to get out of the house. So try to do that a couple f times a week. But remember, if you're trying to help another human they may swat them away.