Are You Giving Enthousiastic Consent to a Random Woman?

He's doing all of the things that Colt does except for inventing his own language I guess. He essentially grooming them to a point and then cutting them off from their regular lives so that they have to be stuck. So again we're not condemning that but clearly Kitty was not giving enthusiastic consent. She had to call him daddy. There's probably more coded language they had to use.