I was always, I had this bit on stage where I was like, men achieve an erection. Like you want to put a medal around it. This is why we need to build things. Women have that drive too, but not the same as us. One of the most feminine images is like a child who's going, that's us. We're just anybody and we'll go to Great Lane. Anybody want this? Yeah, we'll do that, right? But we don't, that's, that's really interesting. So tell, more memories are going to come to me. Tell, tell me about who cares. How much of your job is saying who cares?